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Montessori for Caregivers, Nannies & Grandparents: A Gentle Starter Guide
If the family you care for follows a Montessori approach — or you simply want to support a toddler's independence — this gentle starter guide is for you.
The mindset shift
Montessori caregivers do less, not more. Instead of doing things for the child, you set things up so the child can do them. It feels slower at first, and the results are worth it.
Three phrases that change everything
'I'll wait for you.' — gives the child time to try.
'Would you like help, or would you like to keep trying?' — respects autonomy.
'You did it all by yourself.' — names effort, not praise.
Simple routines to support
Let the toddler put on their own shoes, even when it takes 10 minutes. Offer a small jug of water so they can pour their own drink. Keep a low hook for their coat. Independence grows in tiny, repeated moments.